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I’m Not in Greek Life, But I Still Have a Life

It seems that when rush comes around, the entire campus goes Greek! I tried rushing last year and realized sororities just weren’t my thing. Don’t get me wrong, I like girls…I had plenty of girlfriends when I rushed last year as a sophomore.

I had always grown up with a large group of girlfriends in middle and high-school. These friends were different from sorority friends. We weren’t forced into awkward situations where we were required to be peppy and friendly. We may not have letters in common, but we understand each others’ sense of humors.

I realize sororities can be a lot of fun and a great way to meet people in college if you haven’t already. A lot of my friends are involved in Greek life and couldn’t be happier. However, it’s important to remember you don’t HAVE to be a Greek to have a life. If you don’t think you can afford the cost of a sorority or a fraternity, don’t worry. You may miss out on some fun events like Greek sports games or dances…but the friends you do make in college you’ll meet on your own terms. They won’t just be for convenience, and you won’t have to break an arm or a leg to make them.

There are still other fun events offered on campus, and depending on the clubs you become involved with you may have semis, movie-nights, games, or formals. It’s worth giving rush a try if you’re not sure, but it’s worth remembering that if going Greek doesn’t seem like it’s for you – you’re still completely normal and you will still have a social life.